Words Unspoken

The next 3 posts that hope to post is kinda geared towards relationships(family, friend or lover) and the holidays. The holidays can be very difficult on a great many of us no matter who we are or what we do. Remember,  any one of us could be going thru something that no one knows anything about.

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“If you love someone tell them because hearts are often broken by words left unspoken.” ~Pamela Daranjo

During our lifetime we all have people who come into and leave our lives for whatever reason. Their departure can be due to death, moving away, a bad fight or anything in between. After that person leaves us we sometimes think, “I wished I’d have said… I shoulda said …” Then maybe you have feelings of regret, remorse and so on.

My first real memory of this happening was when my grandfather passed away. One day I remember telling my grandmother that I felt bad because I never told him that I loved him. She very lovingly told me, “He knows child. He knows.”. I felt a huge weight of guilt lifted off my heart. I made up for it as my father was getting ready to leave his tired, old, broken down body. I was at his bedside holding his hand and telling him I loved him.

If we don’t get a chance to let someone we love them before they pass away, going to where they’re buried and talking to them helps. We can say whatever comes to mind and what we never said to them before they passed. Writing a letter is also helpful. Also never go to bed angry at someone. Whether it’s your spouse(or other lover), family or friend do your best to work things out before you go to sleep. Let that person know you love and care about them because none of us know when our time will be over on this Earth. The worst feeling in the world is someone you care about dying

Thought for the day: “The past is history, the future a mystery, and the present a precious gift, hence the name.” ~ Mother Teresa

***Please be sure to read more of my posts

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About Bella’s Thoughts. This is a project that I began in my mind a number of years ago when I began reading some daily meditations. I had my own thoughts on many occasions and attempted to journal many times without success. It began to take shape when I took on another project for a Spiritual Advisor and dear friend who past away. To learn more about me read my very first blog post. For more daily reflections go to... https://www.facebook.com/Stephanies-Sweetgrass-and-Dancin-1414954615472943/

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